Women hosting women, worldwide

Travel with trust.
Stay with sisterhood.

SheStays connects solo female travellers with verified women hosts around the world. Book real stays — not a gamble — in a community built on trust, safety, and shared experience.

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Maria C.
📍 Lisbon, Portugal
✓ Verified Host · 4.97 ★
Your stay
Jun 12 → Jun 16
★★★★★
"Felt completely safe and so welcomed. Maria showed me the best hidden spots in the city."
— Sophie T., London
Simple & safe

How SheStays works

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Search & Discover

Browse verified women hosts by destination, dates, and stay type. Read genuine reviews from fellow female travellers.

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Book with Confidence

Every host is identity-verified and community-rated. Book instantly or send a request. Payment is held securely until your stay begins.

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Arrive & Connect

Experience your destination through a local woman's eyes. Get insider tips, feel genuinely at home, and leave a review to help the next traveller.

Built for safety

Trust is our foundation

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ID Verification

Every host completes government ID verification before accepting their first booking.

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Verified Reviews

Only guests who've completed a stay can leave a review. No fake ratings, ever.

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Secure Payments

Funds are held in escrow and only released after check-in confirmation.

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24/7 Support

Our safety team is on-call around the clock. In-app emergency contacts always available.

Find your perfect stay

Every kind of welcome

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Private Room
Stay in a home
A private room in your host's home. Wake up to local breakfast recommendations and insider knowledge.
From £25 / night
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Entire Space
Your own space
Full apartment or studio owned by a local woman host. Your own front door, your own pace.
From £55 / night
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Shared Space
Commune & connect
Shared living with other female travellers. Perfect for those who want community on the road.
From £18 / night
Live host map

Find hosts near you — worldwide

Our interactive world map shows verified host locations to approximately 1km — enough to plan your trip, not enough to compromise anyone's privacy.

Ready to welcome the world?

Whether you're looking for a safe place to stay or want to open your home to fellow women travellers — SheStays is your community.

Version 1.0 · 2025
SheStays

Community House Rules

These rules exist to protect everyone in the SheStays community. By making or accepting a booking, both parties agree to uphold these standards.

Our community promise: SheStays is built on mutual respect between women travellers and women hosts. These rules are not restrictions — they are the foundation of the trust that makes this community possible.
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Guest Rules
Your responsibilities as a traveller
Booking & Communication
  • Book honestly. Your profile must accurately represent who you are.
  • Communicate promptly. Respond to host messages within 24 hours.
  • Confirm arrival details at least 48 hours before check-in.
  • Respect the cancellation policy. Cancel within the stated timeframe.
Respect for the Space
  • Treat the home with care. Leave spaces as you found them.
  • No unauthorised guests. Only booked persons may stay overnight.
  • Respect quiet hours — typically 10pm to 8am unless agreed otherwise.
  • Follow house-specific rules listed in the booking.
  • Report damage immediately.
  • No smoking indoors unless explicitly permitted.
Safety & Privacy
  • Do not share your host's address publicly.
  • Lock up responsibly when you leave.
  • Respect the host's privacy — do not enter rooms outside your booking.
Conduct & Community
  • Be kind and considerate. Your host has opened their home to you.
  • No discrimination or harassment of any kind.
  • Leave an honest review within 7 days of checkout.
⚠️ Guest violations — serious breaches may result in removal from SheStays.
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Host Rules
Your responsibilities as a host
Listing Accuracy
  • Be truthful in your listing. Photos and descriptions must accurately reflect reality.
  • Keep availability up to date. Cancelling confirmed bookings is a serious breach of trust.
  • State your house rules clearly before a guest books.
  • Set fair pricing. No additional off-platform payments.
Welcoming Guests
  • Respond within 24 hours to all booking requests.
  • Provide clear arrival instructions at least 24 hours before check-in.
  • Ensure the space is clean and prepared.
  • Make an introduction. A friendly welcome helps guests feel safe.
Privacy & Safety
  • Respect your guest's privacy. No unannounced entry except in emergencies.
  • No surveillance in private spaces. Cameras must be disclosed and are prohibited in bedrooms/bathrooms.
  • Maintain a safe environment — smoke detectors, secure locks, basic first aid.
  • Do not discriminate. All verified members must be welcomed equally.
⚠️ Host violations — inaccurate listings or safety breaches will result in suspension.
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Shared Expectations
Applies to all SheStays community members
Zero Tolerance
  • No violence or threats of any kind.
  • No harassment or unwanted contact beyond the booking.
  • No illegal activity on or connected to any SheStays property.
  • No misrepresentation of identity. SheStays is women-only.
Payments & Reviews
  • All transactions must go through SheStays. Off-platform payments remove your protections.
  • Raise disputes within 48 hours via the in-app resolution centre.
  • Reviews must be honest and fair. Retaliatory reviews are monitored.

Our Mutual Agreement

By using SheStays, both hosts and guests agree to uphold these rules in full. We are all responsible for maintaining the safety, trust, and warmth that makes this community worth belonging to.

Guest Signature
Host Signature
Date
✦ Your Profile ✦

Show the world who you are

Your profile is how hosts and guests get to know you before you even meet.

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Your Name
Solo Traveller
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About You
The essentials
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Travel Background
Help hosts understand you
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✨ Interests & passions
📷 Your Photos
Share up to 5 photos of yourself or your travels!
📷Add photo
🌄Travel snap
🌿Adventure
🌸Favourite place
✨One more
How others see your profile
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Your Name
📍 Your Location
Your bio will appear here once you've written it above…
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✦ Guest Preferences ✦

What makes your stay perfect?

Tell us your vibe, lifestyle, and what you need.

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The more you share, the better your matches.
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Travel Vibe
What kind of traveller are you?
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🌿 Nature & outdoors
🏙️ City & culture
⚡ Energy level
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Lifestyle & Values
How you live, what you care about
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🌍 Environment
🍽️ Diet
🤝 Social style
🧘 Wellness
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Health & Accessibility
So we can find your perfect match
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♿ Accessibility needs
🤧 Allergies
🏥 Health considerations
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Home & Space
What environment suits you?
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🛏️ Stay type
👯 Travelling with
✨ Must-haves
🤫 Atmosphere
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Safety & Community
Your comfort and identity matter
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🌈 Identity & community
⚙️ Quick toggles
📷No cameras
🚭Smoke-free
🌙Late arrival OK
🔒Room lock needed
🚇Near transport
🤫Minimal contact
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Trip Style
How you like to travel
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💰 Budget
🧭 Planning style
✦ Host Profile ✦

Tell guests what makes your home special

Share what your space offers and who feels most at home with you.

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Your Space
What are you offering?
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🛏️ Space type
📍 Location
✨ Amenities offered
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Home Vibe & Lifestyle
What's life like at yours?
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🌍 Your values
🤝 Hosting style
🌅 Household rhythm
🍽️ Household diet
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Accessibility & Health
What your space can accommodate
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♿ Accessibility features
🏥 Health-aware features
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Your Ideal Guest
Who feels most at home at yours?
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🎒 Traveller type
📅 Stay length preference
🎯 Shared interests I love
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House Rules & Policies
What applies in your home?
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⚙️ House policies
🚭Smoke-free property
🍷Alcohol-free home
🌙Late arrivals welcome
🔒Room lock provided
🐾Pets live here
👶Children in home
🏠I live on-site
📷Security camera (exterior)
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Community & Values
The kind of space you create
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🌈 Inclusive space
🌟 Why I love hosting
✦ Trip Itinerary
Your journey, all in one place
All your stays for a named trip, in order. Auto-updates as you travel. Share with anyone.
Southern Europe Adventure 2025
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1 May 2025 → 28 May 2025 · 27 nights
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Host name
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Notes for this stay
⚡ Trip Mode
Your stay, right now
Quick controls for this trip only. No fuss. Everything you need, nothing you don't.
No active trip
Where are you headed?
Set up a trip to activate check-in, quick toggles & SOS.
Trip type
💡 How Trip Mode works
Per-trip settings — your main profile stays exactly as it is. Trip Mode is a quick overlay just for this stay.
Arrive & tick off — the arrival checklist sends a quiet safe-arrival notification to your emergency contact when complete.
Quick toggles — flip what matters for this particular stay in seconds. Minimal contact? Late arrival? Remote working? One tap.
SOS always there — the emergency button is always a single tap away the moment your trip is active.
✦ Host Map ✦

Find hosts anywhere in the world

Approximate host locations shown to ~1km radius. Exact addresses are only shared after booking confirmation.

📍 Privacy first: Host pins show approximate location only — within ~1km of their actual address. Full details are shared only after a confirmed booking. Click any pin to see host details.
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✦ Messages ✦

Your conversations

Connect with hosts and guests. Keep all communication on SheStays for your protection.

💡About messaging & payments: This messenger is built into SheStays for you to communicate safely with hosts and guests. Payment processing and booking confirmation will be handled by your hosting platform (e.g. Stripe, your own booking system) — SheStays keeps all communication in-app so you're always protected by our trust & safety policies.
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Select a conversation to start messaging

🏡 Host Status
Set the scene for this stay
Your life doesn't pause for guests — and that's completely fine. Let them know what to expect right now so everyone feels comfortable.
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Current guest: Sophie M.
Staying 12–16 June · 4 nights
✓ ID Verified ✓ Emergency contact set
How available are you right now?
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Fully present
Happy to chat, help, and connect
✓
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Busy at home
Working or occupied — minimal contact please
✓
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Working from home
Here but on calls / focused work
✓
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Out & about
Away from home — back later
✓
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Working late
Back late tonight — please settle in
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Away overnight
Not home — guest has full independence
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What your guest sees right now
Updates the moment you save — appears in their Trip Mode dashboard
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Maria is fully present today

Happy to help with anything you need — feel free to knock or message anytime.

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Timing for this stay
Set arrival and departure windows — keeps everyone comfortable and avoids awkward moments
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Earliest check-in Guest should not arrive before this time
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Latest arrival tonight Please don't arrive after this time
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Quiet hours begin Please keep noise down from this time
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Check-out by Please vacate by this time on departure day
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I'm up from When you can expect to see me around
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Quick settings for this stay
Flip anything that applies right now — your default profile is unchanged
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Self check-in this stay
Key in lockbox — no need to wait for me
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Minimal contact preferred
Please respect my space — I'll do the same
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Kitchen available this stay
Help yourself — please clean up after
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Leaving breakfast provisions
Tea, coffee, basics — help yourself
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Pets in the home right now
Worth flagging if guest has allergies
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WiFi details shared
Password sent via message
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Extra quiet needed today
Important meeting / sleep / unwell — please be mindful
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Available for emergencies only
Please only contact me if it's urgent
Leave a personal note for your guest
Shows on their arrival screen — a small touch that makes a big difference
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👥 Other people in the home
Your guest is booking with you — a verified woman. If anyone else will be in the home during their stay, guests have a right to know. This is one of SheStays' most important safety commitments.
🔒 Our occupant safety policy
All adults in the home must be declared before a guest's first booking at that property.
Male occupants require ID verification — the same government ID + selfie process as hosts. Non-negotiable.
Female household members (partner, adult daughter, flatmate) require name and relationship confirmed — ID verification is encouraged but not mandatory.
Guests are shown occupant information (first name, relationship, verification status) before confirming a booking. No booking can proceed without disclosure.
Undisclosed occupants reported by a guest result in immediate listing suspension pending investigation.
Children under 16 require only name and age — no ID verification needed, but their presence must be declared so guests can make an informed choice.
✦ Verification ✦

Your trust & safety journey

Every person on SheStays completes verification. It protects you, your host, and every woman in our community. Click each step to learn what's involved.

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Start your verification
Complete all steps to receive your Verified Guest badge and unlock full booking access.
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🎂 Age bracket & expectation matching
We use age brackets to match guests and hosts with compatible expectations — not as a filter or barrier. A 22-year-old and a 65-year-old can both be wonderful guests; this helps everyone feel at ease. Your exact age is never shared.
Select your age bracket
✦ Your age bracket helps hosts know what kind of traveller to expect. Hosts can set preferred guest age ranges — but "all ages welcome" is the default and most common setting.
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Create account & confirm email
Email + optional Facebook or Google sign-in
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  • Email address verified by confirmation link — takes 30 seconds
  • Facebook Login option: we check your account is 12+ months old and has 20+ genuine connections — fake accounts rarely build real social graphs
  • Google Login option: a verified Google account adds an extra layer of identity confidence
  • VoIP or temporary email addresses are rejected
  • 2-factor authentication is offered at this step and strongly encouraged
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Personal profile & age bracket
Who you are and how you travel
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  • Age bracket: select above — used for matching only, never displayed publicly without your consent
  • Profile photo required — face clearly visible, no filters, no group shots
  • Short bio (minimum 50 words) — helps hosts feel confident before accepting
  • Languages spoken, travel experience, interests
  • All profile information is reviewed by our trust algorithm for completeness
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Phone number verification
SMS code to a real, reachable mobile
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  • One-time SMS code sent to your mobile number
  • Number stored privately — never shown to hosts
  • Used for safety alerts and emergency contact during stays
  • VoIP numbers are flagged and rejected — must be a real mobile
  • You may opt in to 24-hour check-in notifications at this step
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Community pledge & house rules
Informed consent — legally binding acceptance
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  • Key clauses presented individually — not a single "agree to all" checkbox
  • Active acceptance of: Community Pledge, Guest House Rules, Privacy Policy, Terms of Service
  • Explicit acknowledgement that SheStays is a women-only platform and that misrepresentation of identity means immediate removal
  • Legally: timestamped acceptance record is stored — your protection if a dispute ever arises
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Government ID verification
Passport or driver's licence + live selfie match
AutomatedRequiredLegal
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  • Powered by Veriff or Stripe Identity — supports 11,500+ document types from 230+ countries
  • Photograph your ID document, then take a live selfie — AI matches face to document in seconds
  • Document type adapts by country automatically (NZ licence, Indian Aadhaar, UK passport, US state ID, etc.)
  • SheStays does not store your ID document — the provider returns only a pass/fail and legal name confirmation
  • Your verified legal name must match your SheStays account name
  • On passing, you receive the Verified Guest ✓ badge — hosts see this and are much more likely to accept your booking
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Emergency contact & safety check-in
Someone who knows where you are
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  • Nominate a trusted person (name + phone + email) who can be contacted if something goes wrong
  • Optional 24-hour safe-arrival notification: if you don't confirm, SheStays sends a welfare check prompt to you — then your emergency contact if unanswered
  • Emergency SOS button visible in-app throughout every stay
  • Completing this step shows as a safety signal on your guest profile — hosts appreciate it
  • Why this matters: solo female travel carries real risk. This is one of the most important safety layers SheStays offers — we strongly encourage it
✦ Re-verification ✦

Keeping our community current & safe

Verification isn't a one-time event. We re-verify members periodically — and after significant changes — so every person in the SheStays community remains who they say they are.

Why re-verification matters
A host who was wonderful two years ago may have moved, changed circumstances, or had complaints. A guest's ID document may have expired. Periodic re-verification ensures that the trust you place in SheStays is always well-founded — not based on a check done years ago.
Re-verification schedule
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Guest re-verification
Your current verification status
ID re-verification
Every 3 years
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Phone number check
Every 2 years
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Community pledge renewal
When terms update
Active
Emergency contact refresh
Annual prompt
Due soon
Profile photo refresh
Every 3 years
Active
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Host re-verification
More frequent — hosts carry greater responsibility
ID re-verification
Every 2 years
Active
Space re-inspection (photos)
Every 2 years
Due in 3 months
Safety declaration renewal
Every 2 years
Active
Community pledge renewal
When terms update
Active
Stripe KYC refresh
Stripe-triggered
Pending Stripe
Profile statement review
Every 2 years
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What triggers early re-verification?
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Complaint received
Any formal complaint against a member triggers an immediate review and may require re-verification before they can continue using the platform.
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Change of address
Hosts who move to a new address must re-submit space photos and a new safety declaration before accepting bookings at the new location.
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Expired ID document
If your passport or licence expires, we'll prompt you to re-verify with a current document. Bookings continue while re-verification is in progress.
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Long inactivity
Accounts inactive for 24+ months require a fresh ID check and community pledge renewal before accessing the platform again.
🎂 Age bracket — keeping it current
Your age bracket is prompted for review every 3 years, or whenever you feel it has changed significantly. This is about managing expectations, not gatekeeping — update it whenever it no longer represents where you are in life.
✦ Last updated: January 2025 · Next prompt: January 2028
How you'll be notified
90 days before due: in-app banner and email — plenty of time to prepare
30 days before due: reminder email with direct link to re-verify
On due date: new bookings paused until re-verification is complete — existing confirmed bookings are unaffected
Re-verification typically takes under 10 minutes for automated steps, 2–5 days if human review is needed
✦ Rates & Policies ✦

Transparent pricing, fair for everyone

SheStays uses a split-fee model — guests pay a small booking fee, hosts pay a service fee. Both disclosed upfront. No surprises, ever.

💰 Commission structure
Guest booking fee
7%
Added at checkout
Non-refundable in all scenarios. Covers payment processing, verification & support.
Recommended
Host service fee
10%
Deducted from payout
Deducted automatically before funds are released. Competitive vs Airbnb's 15–20%.
SheStays total
17%
Blended per booking
7% from guest + 10% from host. Split fairly between both parties.
Why split-fee? Charging the host everything breeds resentment. Charging the guest everything inflates the displayed price. Splitting it keeps both parties invested — and keeps SheStays honest about its true cost. The guest booking fee is always retained by SheStays regardless of cancellation, because the work of verification, matching, and support has already been done.
🧮 Booking fee calculator
Nightly rate
Number of nights
Currency
Subtotal (4 nights × $45)NZD$ 180.00
Guest booking fee (7%)NZD$ 12.60
Guest pays totalNZD$ 192.60
Host service fee (10%)− NZD$ 18.00
Host receivesNZD$ 162.00
SheStays earnsNZD$ 30.60
📅 Cancellation policies
The guest booking fee (7%) is always retained by SheStays — in every cancellation scenario at every tier. This is disclosed before booking and covers the real cost of processing, verifying, and supporting every booking regardless of outcome.
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Flexible Most guest-friendly
Best for occasional hosts comfortable with last-minute changes
Cancellation timingHost portionSheStays fee
7+ days before check-inFull refund ✓Retained
2–6 days before check-inFull refund ✓Retained
Under 48 hoursNo refund ✗Retained
No-showNo refund ✗Retained
Extenuating circumstances*Full refund ✓Retained
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Moderate Default for new hosts
Balanced protection for both guest and host — recommended starting point
Cancellation timingHost portionSheStays fee
7+ days before check-inFull refund ✓Retained
2–6 days before check-in50% refundRetained
Under 48 hoursNo refund ✗Retained
No-showNo refund ✗Retained
Extenuating circumstances*Full refund ✓Retained
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Strict Most host-protective
For high-demand locations or hosts who need certainty of income
Cancellation timingHost portionSheStays fee
7+ days before check-in50% refundRetained
2–6 days before check-inNo refund ✗Retained
Under 48 hoursNo refund ✗Retained
No-showNo refund ✗Retained
Extenuating circumstances*Full refund ✓Retained
* Extenuating circumstances: documented serious illness or death of a close family member, major natural disaster, or government travel ban. Requires documentation within 72 hours. SheStays team reviews each case. The booking fee is always retained even in these cases.
⚠️ Host cancellation penalties
If a host cancels a confirmed booking
Protects guests from the devastating experience of a last-minute cancellation
First offence — NZD $50 penalty
Deducted from next payout. Guest receives a full refund of all fees including the booking fee — SheStays absorbs this.
Second offence — NZD $100 + listing suspended 30 days
Host must contact the SheStays team to reinstate. A review flag is added to the host profile.
Third offence — permanent removal
Host removed from the platform. SheStays reserves the right to remove earlier if the pattern appears deliberate.
Genuine emergency exception
Documented illness, bereavement, or force majeure reviewed individually. Penalty waived if verified. Guest still receives a full refund.
Search ranking impact
Any host cancellation temporarily reduces listing visibility. Reliability is a key matching signal regardless of penalty tier.
📐 Pricing guidance for hosts
Suggested nightly rate ranges by space type
Based on comparable women-focused accommodation globally. Hosts set their own rate — these are starting-point benchmarks only.
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Private room (shared home)
Most common listing type
NZD $35–$85
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Entire home / apartment
Full independence for the guest
NZD $80–$180
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Shared / communal space
Social, community-oriented
NZD $25–$55
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Cabin / rural retreat
Unique & experience-led
NZD $60–$140
💸 Host payout timing
Guest books → funds held in escrow by Stripe. Neither party can access them yet.
Guest confirms check-in → funds released. SheStays commission deducted automatically.
24 hours after check-in → host payout initiated to their Stripe Connect bank account.
1–5 business days → funds arrive in host's local bank (timing varies by country and bank).
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